You and Me ,He and She ,EveryOne Is Angel. EveryOne Has His Angel.

爱情中,可有人在原处等你

很多时候我们都会认为自己才是最受伤害的那个,其实,在你这样认为之前,你有没有想过为什么是这样的结局,为什么会受伤害,其实,很多时候我们都不愿意去承认,承认这个错误是自己造成的,甚至会把错嫁祸到对方的头上,认为自己永远都是被伤害的一方,这样做除了让别人同情你还会得到什么呢?在爱面前我们很多时候都会认为自己是最伟大的,自己付出的是最多的,其实比起那痛过之后的关切那算什么!

不过,一段经历之后又有新的生活,新的生活中当然也会有人欢喜有人忧,爱情里没有谁对谁错,错就错在当你拥有的时候是不是珍惜了,当你拥有的时候你有没有善待彼此,不管怎么样我们都不应该让自己的新生活留下遗憾,不要等到失去以后才痛声悔过,你要知道,没有人会在原处等你。下面是我看过的一个故事,不知道你有什么感觉——

《爱情中,没有人会等你》

这是一个女人与她第一任男友之间的事情。

女人那时刚刚大学毕业,很矜持,只会腼腆地笑。

两个人第一次到海鲜馆吃饭,男人为她点了一条鱼,一条她叫不出名字的鱼。这是那天饭桌上唯一的一道荤菜。

鱼身还没动,男友就先搛起鱼眼放到她面前:“喜欢吃鱼眼吗?”她不喜欢,而且也从来不吃鱼眼,但却不忍拒绝,便羞涩地应许。

男友告诉她说,他很喜欢吃鱼眼,小时候家里每次吃鱼,奶奶都把鱼眼搛给他吃,说鱼眼可以明目,小孩吃了心里亮堂。奶奶死了就再也没有人把鱼眼搛给他了。

其实鱼眼也并没什么好吃的,男友笑着说,只是从小被奶奶宠惯了,每次吃鱼,鱼眼都归我——以后,就归你了,让我也宠宠你。于是男友深深地凝视着她。她想不明白,为什么鱼眼就代表着宠爱呢。但是明不明白无所谓,反正以后只要是吃鱼,男友必定会把鱼眼搛给她,再慢慢地看着她把它吃完。慢慢地,她习惯了,习惯了每次吃鱼之前等着男友把鱼眼搛给她。

那时男友已在市区买下一所房子打算结婚。而她却哭着告诉她,她不能在这个小城市过一生,她要的生活不是如此。余下的话她没有说——因为她年轻,她有才华,她不甘心在这个城市呆一辈子,她要成功,要做女强人,要实现少年时的梦。男友送她时,她连头都没回一下,走的很决绝。

在外拼博了许多年,她的梦想终于实现。她拥有了一家像模像样的公司,可爱情始终以一种寂寞的姿态存在。她发现这么多年在外,每有宴会必有鱼,可再也没有人把鱼眼搛给她。她常常在散席离开时回头看一眼满桌的狼籍,与鱼眼对视。

后来一次特别的机会,她回到曾经生活过的城市。昔日的男友已为人夫,她应邀去那所原本属于她的房子里吃晚餐。

他的妻子做了一条鱼。他张罗着让她吃,搛起一大块鱼肉放在她的蝶子里,而鱼眼却给了他的妻子。这么多年,无论多苦多累,她都没掉过泪,但那一刻她却怎么也忍不住了。

就是这么简单,没有人会在原处等你。

真爱就是两个人默默相守的快乐。当我们明白的时候,我们已失去了。真实生活就是这样的,没有人在原处等你,如果已经离开,就不必回头。

 没有人会在原处等你,没有!

转自:百度×糖果

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